Rejection Doesn't Mean You Aren't Good Enough... It Means They Failed to Notice Your Gifts and Abilities #inspiration #motivation

March 23, 2018



Rejection doesn’t mean you aren’t good enough; it means the other person failed to notice what you have to offer. – Mark Amend


Rejection... we are go through it and it can be a heart-breaking experience.  Someone turns you down for a job, date, marriage, friendship, loan, credit card, sports, book and you are wondering what you did.  There are many reasons for rejection but today, I want us to take a different perspective.


It's not you, it's them.


Read the above quote again.


Rejection doesn't mean you aren't good enough; it means the other person failed to notice what you have to offer.


You are a special person and you have a lot to offer, no matter what other people may say or think!  Believe it, for I only speak the truth!  If someone rejects you, try not to take it personally.  It's not you, it's them.  I know you're shaking your head not believing me.  Here's an example:


I am a writer and an author.  I deal with rejection on an everyday basis.  I've had a lot of professionals tell me no.  Did I take it personally?  Sure, I'm human; it's a natural instinct to take it personally.  But when I remember it's not me, it's them, I feel better.  It's not my fault they can't see the truth and my Light shining brightly.


Some rejections are even beneficial.  I got rejected plenty of times by men before I met MR N.  If they had not rejected me, I wouldn't be happily married to the most wonderful man in the world!


I know rejections hurt but if you remember this quote and internalize the motto: it's not me, it's them... you will live a more fulfilling life!


You can do it!  I have faith in you!


One last thought: Every time you get rejected, smile and keep spreading the Light.  Your attitude will shock the rejecting party and you'll reap the rewards. 




Please reload

Recent Posts

Please reload

We'd love to hear your thoughts. All comments are moderated to avoid spam.